Friday, January 17, 2020

Influence


The WORD today reminds me that it is very important to choose who we are surrounded by.

Parents often remind their children to choose their friends wisely because it usually is a big influence on the child. I used to think this is not true, but looking at a lot of cases, this is usually true. Although there are people who don't get affected by the behavior of their friends, generally people do get affected. Those who hang out with intelligent and hardworking people get the same values as well. Those who hang out with nasty people get influenced as well.

We should be careful who we surround ourselves with.

The first reading and the gospel present different situations. The people in the first reading were rumbling against God. They rebelled and wanted someone to be their king. Samuel warned them what God told him. However, they did not listen. They were stubborn. They did not want to remain to be under God. On the other hand, the paralytic in the gospel had great friends - friends who had faith and cared for him, and eventually made way for him to be healed. His friends played a big influence on his healing.

Friends usually affect how we behave. Their attitudes and values rub on to us, regardless if we notice it or not. And the more we interact with them, the more we hang out with them, the more they influence us. So we should choose our friends wisely, and in the same way, we should be good influences to those around us - bringing them closer to God.

Who are my friends? How am I influenced by my friends? What do I bring to my friendships? Do I just go along with them, or do I bring God to them? What is God telling me today?

May we be more aware of who we surround ourselves with, and be more conscious of how we behave and influence others.

Father God,
Thank you for today. Thank you for another day to live. Thank you for another reminder. Lord, help me choose wisely who I surround myself with. Help me be aware. And help me be detached and let go of people who do not bring me closer to you. Send me people who would increase my faith and love for you. I also ask you to help me become a good person, a good influence to those around me. Amen.



Blessed Day!



In Christ,

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January 17 2020



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Memorial of Saint Anthony, abbott
Lectionary: 309

Reading 1 1 SM 8:4-7, 10-22A

All the elders of Israel came in a body to Samuel at Ramah
and said to him, “Now that you are old,
and your sons do not follow your example,
appoint a king over us, as other nations have, to judge us.”

Samuel was displeased when they asked for a king to judge them.
He prayed to the LORD, however, who said in answer:
“Grant the people’s every request.
It is not you they reject, they are rejecting me as their king.”

Samuel delivered the message of the LORD in full
to those who were asking him for a king.
He told them:
“The rights of the king who will rule you will be as follows:
He will take your sons and assign them to his chariots and horses,
and they will run before his chariot.
He will also appoint from among them his commanders of groups
of a thousand and of a hundred soldiers.
He will set them to do his plowing and his harvesting,
and to make his implements of war and the equipment of his chariots. 
He will use your daughters as ointment makers, as cooks, and as bakers.
He will take the best of your fields, vineyards, and olive groves,
and give them to his officials.
He will tithe your crops and your vineyards,
and give the revenue to his eunuchs and his slaves.
He will take your male and female servants,
as well as your best oxen and your asses,
and use them to do his work.
He will tithe your flocks and you yourselves will become his slaves.
When this takes place,
you will complain against the king whom you have chosen,
but on that day the LORD will not answer you.”

The people, however, refused to listen to Samuel’s warning and said,
“Not so!  There must be a king over us.
We too must be like other nations,
with a king to rule us and to lead us in warfare
and fight our battles.” 
When Samuel had listened to all the people had to say,
he repeated it to the LORD, who then said to him,
“Grant their request and appoint a king to rule them.”

Responsorial Psalm PS 89:16-17, 18-19

R. (2) For ever I will sing the goodness of the Lord.
Blessed the people who know the joyful shout;
in the light of your countenance, O LORD, they walk.
At your name they rejoice all the day,
and through your justice they are exalted.
R. For ever I will sing the goodness of the Lord.
For you are the splendor of their strength,
and by your favor our horn is exalted.
For to the LORD belongs our shield,
and to the Holy One of Israel, our King.
R. For ever I will sing the goodness of the Lord.

Alleluia LK 7:16

R. Alleluia, alleluia.
A great prophet has arisen in our midst
and God has visited his people.
R. Alleluia, alleluia.

Gospel MK 2:1-12

When Jesus returned to Capernaum after some days,
it became known that he was at home.
Many gathered together so that there was no longer room for them,
not even around the door,
and he preached the word to them.
They came bringing to him a paralytic carried by four men.
Unable to get near Jesus because of the crowd,
they opened up the roof above him.
After they had broken through,
they let down the mat on which the paralytic was lying.
When Jesus saw their faith, he said to him,
“Child, your sins are forgiven.”
Now some of the scribes were sitting there asking themselves,
“Why does this man speak that way?  He is blaspheming.
Who but God alone can forgive sins?”
Jesus immediately knew in his mind what 
they were thinking to themselves, 
so he said, “Why are you thinking such things in your hearts?
Which is easier, to say to the paralytic,
‘Your sins are forgiven,’
or to say, ‘Rise, pick up your mat and walk’?
But that you may know
that the Son of Man has authority to forgive sins on earth”
–he said to the paralytic,
“I say to you, rise, pick up your mat, and go home.”
He rose, picked up his mat at once, 
and went away in the sight of everyone.
They were all astounded
and glorified God, saying, “We have never seen anything like this.”



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