Tuesday, January 11, 2022

Frustrated


The WORD today reminds me to examine  how I deal with frustrations. 

There are a lot of ways people deal with frustrations. A lot, and the more common ones, deal with it by drinking and getting drunk, eating it out, distracting themselves and making themselves busy. Others prefer to talk to friends and vent out their frustrations. However, in the first reading, we see something different. We see how we should deal with frustrations. 

It is okay to vent out our frustrations to God. God can take it and he understands. It is better to say it to God than express it to other people. 

Instead of the usual ways of coping with frustrations, we saw Hannah going to God and venting out her frustrations. This is not a something a lot of us are doing. We sometimes feel that God does not have time for such concerns, or he does not want us to go to him with our frustrations. However, we see otherwise. 

Going to God is a sign of faith and a good relationship with Him. Going to him to air our frustrations mean we trust him enough. It means we have faith that he hears us, and that he can do something about it. Going to him means we have a good relationship with Him that we come to him not only on good times but also on the bad. 

God heard Hanna's frustrations and granted her prayers. And he too hears ours. This should remind us that it’s okay to go to God. This reminds us that God would not take it against us. And that we should continue to trust in God and have faith in him no matter what we are going through in life.

What are my concerns right now? What are my frustrations? Fears and worries? How do I deal with it? Do I take it out on other people? Do I do stupid things? Do I come to God and pour everything to him? What is he reminding me today? 

May we be reminded to handle frustrations by going to God, instead of other coping mechanisms. He can take it. 

Father God,
Thank you for today. Thank you for another day to live. Thank you for another chance to love and serve you. Thank you for the reminder. Thank you for being patient and understanding towards me. Lord, sorry for the times I forget you. Sorry for taking out my frustrations on other people. Sorry for not trusting in you enough. Lord, I will work on my faith and my relationship with you, so that like Hannah, you will be the first option I will go to. As I do so, I have faith that you hear me and you will take mercy on me. Amen


Blessed Day! 

In Christ ,
-g-


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Daily Readings

Tuesday of the First Week in Ordinary Time

Lectionary: 306

Reading I

Hannah rose after a meal at Shiloh,
and presented herself before the LORD;
at the time, Eli the priest was sitting on a chair
near the doorpost of the LORD’s temple.
In her bitterness she prayed to the LORD, weeping copiously,
and she made a vow, promising: “O LORD of hosts,
if you look with pity on the misery of your handmaid,
if you remember me and do not forget me,
if you give your handmaid a male child,
I will give him to the LORD for as long as he lives;
neither wine nor liquor shall he drink,
and no razor shall ever touch his head.”
As she remained long at prayer before the LORD,
Eli watched her mouth, for Hannah was praying silently;
though her lips were moving, her voice could not be heard.
Eli, thinking her drunk, said to her,
“How long will you make a drunken show of yourself?
Sober up from your wine!”
“It isn’t that, my lord,” Hannah answered.
“I am an unhappy woman.
I have had neither wine nor liquor;
I was only pouring out my troubles to the LORD.
Do not think your handmaid a ne’er-do-well;
my prayer has been prompted by my deep sorrow and misery.”
Eli said, “Go in peace,
and may the God of Israel grant you what you have asked of him.”
She replied, “Think kindly of your maidservant,” and left.
She went to her quarters, ate and drank with her husband,
and no longer appeared downcast.
Early the next morning they worshiped before the LORD,
and then returned to their home in Ramah.

When Elkanah had relations with his wife Hannah,
the LORD remembered her. 
She conceived, and at the end of her term bore a son
whom she called Samuel, since she had asked the LORD for him.

R.        (see 1) My heart exults in the Lord, my Savior.
“My heart exults in the LORD,
            my horn is exalted in my God.
I have swallowed up my enemies;
            I rejoice in my victory.”
R.        My heart exults in the Lord, my Savior.
“The bows of the mighty are broken,
            while the tottering gird on strength.
The well-fed hire themselves out for bread,
            while the hungry batten on spoil.
The barren wife bears seven sons,
            while the mother of many languishes.”
R.        My heart exults in the Lord, my Savior.
“The LORD puts to death and gives life;
            he casts down to the nether world;
            he raises up again.
The LORD makes poor and makes rich;
            he humbles, he also exalts.”
R.        My heart exults in the Lord, my Savior.
“He raises the needy from the dust;
            from the dung heap he lifts up the poor,
To seat them with nobles
            and make a glorious throne their heritage.”
R.        My heart exults in the Lord, my Savior.

R. Alleluia, alleluia.
Receive the word of God, not as the word of men,
but as it truly is, the word of God.
R. Alleluia, alleluia.
 

Jesus came to Capernaum with his followers, 
and on the sabbath he entered the synagogue and taught.
The people were astonished at his teaching,
for he taught them as one having authority and not as the scribes.
In their synagogue was a man with an unclean spirit;
he cried out, “What have you to do with us, Jesus of Nazareth?
Have you come to destroy us?
I know who you are–the Holy One of God!” 
Jesus rebuked him and said, “Quiet!  Come out of him!”
The unclean spirit convulsed him and with a loud cry came out of him.
All were amazed and asked one another,
 “What is this?
A new teaching with authority.
He commands even the unclean spirits and they obey him.”
His fame spread everywhere throughout the whole region of Galilee.



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