Envy

The WORD today (see http://usccb.org/bible/readings/031717.cfm) reminds me how dangerous the sin of envy is. 

We know that being envious of what other people have, and of other people in general, is bad. One should be contented with what you have and not look to compare with others. The readings today illustrate why. 

In the first reading, the brothers were envious of Joseph because he was the favorite of their father. Yes, their father loved all of them, but they saw and felt how much love Joseph received. And it made them envious of Joseph. In the gospel, Jesus told the parable of the landowner, whose tenants became so envious of the son, and his status as the landowner's son. Both started from a seemingly innocent feeling of envy towards others, but did not end at that. 

Being envious of others can drive one to do evil things. 

The brothers in the first reading planned to kill Joseph. Good thing it did not push through, but instead sold him as a slave. In the gospel, the tenants killed the son. Both started from envy, both ended up with something so evil. This is what can happen to us as well. If we are not careful with what we feel, especially when we feel envious of others, we may end up doing evil things. 

Focusing snd comparing ourselves with others mean that we do not value what God is giving us. 

God loves us so much. He loves all of us. And he loves us differently. This is why we should not compare ourselves with others. He blesses us and gives us what we need, the same way he gives those to others. We have more than enough, and we should be thankful. We just tend to compare and look at others because we want more. Because we feel entitled to more. But this should not be how we look at it. We should be grateful for everything God is giving us. 

May we learn to be thankful, satisfied and contented with God's blessings and not be envious of what others have. 

Father God,

Thank you for today. Thank you for another day to live. Thank you for another chance to love and serve you. Thank you for the reminder. Lord, sorry for the times I feel envious of others. Sorry for comparing what I have to what they have. Sorry for wanting more and for not being grateful and thankful to you. Help me have a grateful heart. Remind me of your love and your goodness. Help me thank you by sharing with others. Give me a heart like yours, that would not only be thankful, but also be willing to generously share to others. Amen. 

Blessed day!

In Christ,

-g-

Ps

See related reflections:

http://mysimplereflection.blogspot.com/2015/08/comparison.html

http://mysimplereflection.blogspot.com/2013/08/envy-and-generosity.html

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March 17, 2017
Friday of the Second Week of Lent
Lectionary: 234

Reading 1 Gn 37:3-4, 12-13a, 17b-28a

Israel loved Joseph best of all his sons,
for he was the child of his old age;
and he had made him a long tunic.
When his brothers saw that their father loved him best of all his sons,
they hated him so much that they would not even greet him.

One day, when his brothers had gone
to pasture their father's flocks at Shechem,
Israel said to Joseph,
"Your brothers, you know, are tending our flocks at Shechem.
Get ready; I will send you to them."

So Joseph went after his brothers and caught up with them in Dothan.
They noticed him from a distance,
and before he came up to them, they plotted to kill him.
They said to one another: "Here comes that master dreamer!
Come on, let us kill him and throw him into one of the cisterns here;
we could say that a wild beast devoured him.
We shall then see what comes of his dreams."

When Reuben heard this,
he tried to save him from their hands, saying,
"We must not take his life.
Instead of shedding blood," he continued,
"just throw him into that cistern there in the desert;
but do not kill him outright."
His purpose was to rescue him from their hands
and return him to his father.
So when Joseph came up to them,
they stripped him of the long tunic he had on;
then they took him and threw him into the cistern,
which was empty and dry.

They then sat down to their meal.
Looking up, they saw a caravan of Ishmaelites coming from Gilead,
their camels laden with gum, balm and resin
to be taken down to Egypt.
Judah said to his brothers:
"What is to be gained by killing our brother and concealing his blood?
Rather, let us sell him to these Ishmaelites,
instead of doing away with him ourselves.
After all, he is our brother, our own flesh."
His brothers agreed.
They sold Joseph to the Ishmaelites for twenty pieces of silver.

Responsorial Psalm Ps 105:16-17, 18-19, 20-21

R. (5a) Remember the marvels the Lord has done.
When the LORD called down a famine on the land
and ruined the crop that sustained them,
He sent a man before them,
Joseph, sold as a slave.
R. Remember the marvels the Lord has done.
They had weighed him down with fetters,
and he was bound with chains,
Till his prediction came to pass
and the word of the LORD proved him true.
R. Remember the marvels the Lord has done.
The king sent and released him,
the ruler of the peoples set him free.
He made him lord of his house
and ruler of all his possessions.
R. Remember the marvels the Lord has done.

Verse Before the Gospel Jn 3:16

God so loved the world that he gave his only-begotten Son;
so that everyone who believes in him might have eternal life.

Gospel Mt 21:33-43, 45-46

Jesus said to the chief priests and the elders of the people:
"Hear another parable.
There was a landowner who planted a vineyard,
put a hedge around it,
dug a wine press in it, and built a tower.
Then he leased it to tenants and went on a journey.
When vintage time drew near,
he sent his servants to the tenants to obtain his produce.
But the tenants seized the servants and one they beat,
another they killed, and a third they stoned.
Again he sent other servants, more numerous than the first ones,
but they treated them in the same way.
Finally, he sent his son to them,
thinking, 'They will respect my son.'
But when the tenants saw the son, they said to one another,
'This is the heir.
Come, let us kill him and acquire his inheritance.'
They seized him, threw him out of the vineyard, and killed him.
What will the owner of the vineyard do to those tenants when he comes?"
They answered him,
"He will put those wretched men to a wretched death
and lease his vineyard to other tenants
who will give him the produce at the proper times."
Jesus said to them, "Did you never read in the Scriptures:

The stone that the builders rejected
has become the cornerstone;
by the Lord has this been done,
and it is wonderful in our eyes?

Therefore, I say to you,
the Kingdom of God will be taken away from you
and given to a people that will produce its fruit."
When the chief priests and the Pharisees heard his parables,
they knew that he was speaking about them.
And although they were attempting to arrest him,
they feared the crowds, for they regarded him as a prophet.